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Escaping The Narcissist’s Sado-Masochistic World
A narcissistic relationship begins in a utopian state of wonder and bliss, before devolving into a hellscape of ritualistic humiliation, rejection and…
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Shawshanking Yourself Free Of A Trauma Bond With A Narcissist
A relationship with a narcissist consists of layers which, much like endless cloud cover, eventually shroud your days in darkness.
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Feeling Alive Again After Narcissistic Abuse
Narcissistic abuse only takes place if you can be convinced to rewrite the script in your mind about who you are and what your life is about.
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Can Narcissistic Abuse Kill You?
People can ‘live’ with narcissistic abuse for years, if not decades.
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Leaving Fantasy Behind And Returning To Reality
The targets of abuse have a core vulnerability which they often overlook, and their tendency to miss it lies in its very nature: Dissociation.
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How To Stop Being Angry At A Narcissist
In the same way you gave up your power to a narcissist, they continue to control you through your anger.
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Going No Contact — Coping And Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse
Going no contact from a narcissist can be a hellish experience, much like cold turkey after substance addiction.
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Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse Flashbacks And Finding Presence
Narcissistic abuse remains lodged in a person’s body and soul as trauma.
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Overcoming The Dark Depression Of Narcissistic Abuse
Depression is a healing tonic which restores the Self to a point of equilibrium.
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Rediscovering Love After Narcissistic Abuse
Love is like God, in that it:
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The Importance Of Grieving After Narcissistic Abuse
After the initial high of the ‘light-bulb’ moment passes, when you have awoken to the truth and created distance from the narcissist, a heaviness might…
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