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Yes, thanks for laying out all the stages. You always give me the hard home work. I will muster up the courage, thanks to your guidance. I think the trap was harder to recognize because it is coming from my adult son now, inherited from his dad and granpas.🙏

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This article came at the perfect time. As I fight to leave my narcistic relationship, the pull of comfort of attachment is ever stronger, my mind focusing on the good times - overlooking the bad. Actively I remind myself of how terrible - like living in a war zone - the relationship was as I see her create her new life with not a little jealousy. So this came at the perfect time. And beautifully written. Thank you.

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My pleasure, Nigel. I'm glad it landed at the right time for you. Hopefully you find some nuggets in there to move you through things.

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